What is the best romantic gesture you can do for your loved one? Do the unexpected! This article is aimed for men, but it can also be used for women as well.

When I mention the unexpected, this means doing something that you wouldn’t normally do. And that she wouldn’t expect. Women do like romantic gestures, such as a bouquet of flowers, chocolates, dinner out, etc. But these romantic gestures have been done over and over again. Not that they aren’t appreciated, because we women know that you do it to make us happy and that it comes from the heart. But doing a romantic gesture that is well thought out, going beyond what you would normally do… now that is the romance we are all looking for! And it is the one that will stick with us forever.

I’ll give you a few examples. Normally, when your woman is headed home from work, you are there waiting for her. Why not go beyond that and meet her unexpectedly after work. Show up at her car. She’s not expecting this, right? Then take her out for an unexpected dinner out. What woman wouldn’t be thrilled to be surprised to see her man waiting for her, when she’s not expecting it, and take her out?

Another idea is to make her breakfast in bed. What a start to the day!

If she is normally the one who cooks dinner, or it’s her turn that night, surprise her with a home cooked meal. When she returns from work, or an outing, have everything ready when she arrives home. Turn the lights down low, have soft music playing in the background, and a nicely set table. You will knock her off her feet and she will know that she is loved and appreciated.

There are so many other unexpected ways you can romanticize her. Your situation may be different from others, so tailor make it for your relationship. And don’t forget… romance can be done any day of the week. Don’t just set it aside for special occasions or holidays. Do the unexpected and you’re sure to capture her heart!