Women these
days are smart and cautious. With the amount
of date rape cases on the rise, going out on
a date with a stranger is becoming less
popular. However, the good-hearted person
you are, that should not stop you from
asking out an interesting stranger.
Here are creative ways of asking her out.
Walk Over and Ask
The least complex but usually hardest way to
ask out a stranger is walking over and
asking straight away. The very simplicity of
walking over and blurting out a simple,
direct question makes the whole strategy
challenging. The execution is so simple that
the success or failure of the move lies
entirely on the individual executing it. The
proven technique? Have the looks of a Brad
Pitt, the wit of a George Clooney and the
Cruiser charm, and you’ll sure to get a,
“yes.”
However, for the balance of the population
who is not so fortunate to be like them,
there are other options to take, to avoid
getting rejected.
Start with a Complement
A complement is always a good way to start.
But complementing her looks is so passé and
doubtful because it borders on being a
pick-up line. Try to complement her action
or things that she uses instead of her
looks. If you saw her park perfectly, then
complement that and ask if she has time to
describe her experience with her car. Ask
her about the notebook she’s using, its
value and performance, as you are also
interested in getting one for yourself. Ask
about her mobile and if she’s satisfied with
her provider. Those should be good starting
points of a conversation and hopefully you
are able to extend it until you get her
number, or a real date.
Be Familiar to the Stranger
Sometimes, asking out strangers are easy if
they are not a total stranger to you. You
may have seen her weekly at the fruits
section of the grocery or she may have
caught your eye as she was loading her
laundry. You may not know her name, but you
certainly can know a lot about her, just by
observing her.
If you find a potential date with any of the
strangers that you regularly see as you head
to the office, then create interest by
observing her more closely. Try to know her
schedule or where you see her often. Wait
for the right moment to happen, so you have
a higher chance of getting positive results.
When you see her every morning at your
favorite café, don’t ask her out while she’s
picking up an espresso-to-go at 7:30 am.
Wait till Friday, when she usually spends
the afternoon with her notebook and a tall
latte. That should be a good opportunity to
make conversation. She’s in a relaxed state,
not in a hurry, and maybe open for new
acquaintances.
Laundromats are a good place to ask out a
stranger. Why? Because you have the time.
There is nothing more boring than waiting
for your cycle to finish. And people usually
have at least 2: whites and coloreds. So
that’s enough time and opportunity for you
to gather up the courage and ask. But before
doing so, make sure that you’ve made your
background check. Maybe she reads while she
waits for the laundry to finish. Ask about
the book but keep the conversation light so
she will not be put off by your presence.
Offer to help when you can, without
imposing, so she will not be threatened.
Smile genuinely, from the heart and she will
see your pure intentions and may become
interested to go out.
A Common Acquaintance
In this small American country, people are
connected to each other, in one way or
another. The key is to find your connection
to the stranger that you are interested in
going out with.
Spend a week or two observing your stranger.
If you are lucky enough to find a common
friend, then that is a sure ticket to ask
her out. Arrange for a chance meeting, or a
group date to have an opportunity to have a
conversation with her. Soon as you are able
to get past the “hi” and, “hello,” then you
should be able to take it through spending
some time together alone.
There’s much excitement and adventure in
asking out strangers. Overcoming the
challenge is quite fulfilling. However, make
sure that your intentions are genuine and
good, for only the pure at heart deserve to
go out with the interesting stranger.
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