Where to Meet People

Book Store

A book store is a great place to meet people because it is quiet and there are always an abundance of book stores in any town or city.  It's also a great place to start up a conversation.  For instance, you spot a guy who is browsing the arts section.  Go up, grab a book and ask him if he's read that book before.  Tell him how you heard it was supposed to be good.  You can also ask him for his opinion on good reads.  This is a great way to break the ice and get the conversation flowing.

Music Store

Like book stores, music stores can be found in any city or town.  Here, the atmosphere is alive and positive with music flowing all around.  You can approach someone in the same way you would in a book store.  Just walk up to the section that the person is at and ask them for their opinion on an artist or album.  It's also a great way to tell if you and that person have music interests in common.

Library

Every place has a library.  If you are looking to meet someone intellectual or "well read" then this is the place to be.  Keep in mind that when you approach the person that you have to be quiet and talk low.  But it's still a great place to meet someone without all the hubbub of noise and distractions.

Church

A local church is one of THE best places to meet people.  You know you will meet someone friendly and if you are a churchgoer then you are sure to meet someone of your own faith.  Join your church's youth group, choir or fundraiser.  Some churches even have a single's group where you can meet other singles of your own faith.

Flea Market

Like a book or music store, a flea market is usually hopping with people, either looking for great deals or looking to sell their wares.  If you spot someone you are interested in and they happen to be selling things, this is one of the best approaches at a flea market.  Walk up to that person and ask them about some of the things they are selling.  This will also be a great way to find out about the person, what their interests are and where they're from.  You might even find something in common to talk about.  Another approach, is actually selling your own items.  This gives you a broad idea of who you can meet and what they are interested in.  And you will find that lots of times someone will approach YOU and ask YOU questions.

School Clubs/Functions

School activities are a great way of meeting people.  If you are new to a school then this is the best way to meet people.  Sign up for your local drama club, newspaper or school council.  Join social groups and help set up dances and parties.  Join the debate team or just hang out at your school dance.  Anything to get your face out there so people can recognize you.  If you have your eye on someone in particular then find out what things they've signed up for and see if you are able to join as well. Common interests tend to bind people together, especially when team work is involved.

Ice Skating

Your local skating arena is another great place to meet people.  Unlike bowling or team sports which take up people's time playing the sport, ice skating allows people to enjoy their time without any distractions. You can also have fun by "timing" things to get a person's attention, such as accidentally "bumping" into them or falling on the ice in front of them.

Walking/Biking/Blading Along Path

Not only is this a great way to meet people but it's also a great way to get some exercise! Walk, bike or roller blade, it really doesn't matter which you do.  There are usually many great walking/biking paths to choose from and there are always people using these paths.  Take your dog or take your neighbour's dog to help break the ice. And try to stay clear of secluded areas that may put you in harms way.

Museum/Art Gallery

If you are an artsty fartsy type of person and would like to meet like-wise people then your local museum and/or art gallery is the place to go. Start a conversation over a piece of art work or ask for opinions on museum artifacts.

Volunteer

Volunteering in your community is a great way to meet people and a great way to help your community.  It is also a great way to meet someone who you share similar interests with since you both have signed up for the same activity.  Check with your local volunteer agency to see what is available in your community.

Parties

What better way to meet new people than at a party, with music going on in the background, lots of snacks to munch on, and an overall atmosphere of fun and happiness. Come up with your own ice breakers or have someone introduce you.  If you see someone you are not familiar with, break the ice by asking them where they are from and who they know.

The Beach

Pack up your best swim suit and a bag of munchies and head on over to the beach. Not only will you find local people but you will also get the chance to meet people you wouldn't normally get to meet, people from out of town or even out of the country!  Ask them where they are from, if they live around here or if they are just visiting. With plenty of sun and water to make the mood even more exhilarating, you are bound to meet someone there.

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